Walls, pain and lies!

Well girls lets talk it over. Do you have walls around your heart. If you have said or done the following you probably do:

1) You push people away before they can do the same to you.

2) You have said, "I will never be loved."

3) "I don't deserve him anyway."

Let's start with those 3. Even if you have been hurt you cant judge everyone else by another persons actions.
A) its not fair to them
B) it limits you
C) it sets you up for failure

Now is Momma saying don't protect your heart? No you have to go into all situations with eyes wide open. But also go in with a Heart Wide Open.

Now you may feel that you have never been loved. Well that is not true! God loves you and if you let others in you will be loved. 

Now, when I say love I am not talking about romantic love. You may have not met Mr. Right just yet to have had that experience but it doesn't mean you won't! You have to also realize "movie romance" and "real life romance" are 2 separate entities!

Now that final statement ... I don't deserve him anyway ... honey what you don't realize is you are a child of the King! You are a princess and yes you deserve to be treated like one.

One of my favorite sayings and very applicable to this conversation is, "A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man has to seek Him to find her!"

So.. we can talk more later but for now think on what Momma is saying ... have a good day!  Love Y'all!!